Hello friends! Hope you are all having a wonderful day! Lets have a dialogue about insecurity. Come on now...we all have it right?

Insecurity is a permeating darkness that comes from a deep seeded shame based belief system that says "you are not good enough, lovable enough, successful enough, good looking enough, or important enough." Shame based beliefs are most often developed in childhood or from other important defining relationships. These beliefs are petty tyrants in that they have a need to be recycled. They are mostly recycled in our relationships that we choose to be in. Insecurity can burn inside like a fire and we can feel like a melting pot of chaos inside. As insecurity grows we become more and more needy, desperate, angry, avoidant etc.

A certain amount of insecurity is healthy in that it keeps us from narcissism. We cannot pass this life class without a healthy dose of insecurity and humility. We can see our insecurity as a gift. It can guide and make you more altert those you choose to keep company with and it can be seen as your great competitor to continue to work to better yourself and feel like a winner in the world. To be fully expressed and authentic is to have insecurity. Today be a beautiful disaster! There is nothing wrong with it!