oneness

We are often so focused on controlling others in our outside world and waiting on them to meet our needs and expectations that we, in essence, lose our ability to take care of ourselves. Oneness is being you. We often are better equipped at taking care of others and we get joy out of the direct results we see when we make someone happy. What if we were to take care of ourselves in the same way that we take care of others. What if we stopped trying to get others to come on our "program" and rather we just lived our own program. Each of us is a unique individual and sometimes we have to make really difficult decisions to go out in the world and put ourselves first and I see that so many of us do not do that. We seem great on the outside as we rush around to 'please' the expectations of others but we are not happy inside. Today do for yourself what you would normally do for others. Make this a habit. Its basic math...you come first the world comes second...and watch how your energy changes. I am not talking here about being self-centered...I am talking about being centered on self. Fill up your oneness with what you expect others to do for you...and shine!
Dr. Sherrie